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Reception Running Sheet: Minute-by-Minute Coordinator Checklist

A reception running sheet is the document your MC, coordinator, photographer, and DJ all run from on the day. It is more granular than a wedding-day timeline — it covers the actual reception block minute by minute, with vendor cues, music transitions, and the moments that matter. Use this as a template, fill in your real times, and print 5 copies for your key people. All prices in AUD unless otherwise marked.

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11 April 2026 · Last reviewed April 2026

32 tasks

Phase 1

Pre-reception (60 minutes before guests arrive)

Coordinator + venue captain final walk-through

Essential

Confirm table layout matches the seating plan, escort cards or chart in place, gift table set up, signage out, AV tested.

Vendors complete setup

Essential

Florist finishes centrepieces, DJ tests sound, photographer sets up reception lights, caterer confirms timing.

MC briefing

Essential

Run the MC through the running order, names and pronunciations, song cues, speech order, and any in-jokes the couple wants flagged.

Sound check

Essential

Microphone level for speeches, music volume during meal vs dancing, DJ booth lighting, any speeches needing lapel mic.

Final headcount confirmed with caterer

Essential

Total cover, dietary marker count, kid meals, vendor meals.

Phase 2

Cocktail hour (60-90 minutes — couple is doing portraits)

Guests arrive + canapes served

Essential

Wait staff circulate canapes. Bar opens. Background music at low-medium volume.

Direct guests to entertainment

Important

Photo booth, lawn games, signature cocktail station, slideshow. Keeps energy up while couple is away.

Coordinator manages couple's portrait timing

Important

Radio check with photographer. Aim to have couple back 10-15 minutes before grand entrance.

Quietly seat anyone who wants to settle in

Nice to have

Older guests, parents of small kids — let them find their seats early.

Phase 3

Grand entrance + welcome (15 minutes)

Coordinator gathers guests inside + seated

Essential

5 minutes before entrance, MC asks guests to take their seats.

Wedding party announced

Important

MC announces wedding party in pairs to walk-in song. 30 seconds per pair.

Couple grand entrance

Essential

MC pauses, music shifts, couple enters to their chosen song. 60-90 seconds.

Welcome speech

Important

Couple, parent, or MC — 2-3 minutes thanking guests and kicking off the meal.

MC invites guests to start the meal

Essential

Cue caterer to begin entree service.

Phase 4

Dinner block (60-90 minutes)

Entree served

Important

Couple often circulates between courses to greet tables. Background music at conversational volume.

Speeches between entree + main

Important

Best man, maid of honour, parent. 4-7 minutes each MAX. MC introduces each speaker, manages timing, leads applause + toasts.

Mains served + couple eats

Essential

MC holds the room. Couple sits down and actually eats — 15 minutes minimum.

Dietary + special meals double-checked

Essential

Wait staff confirm allergens with the couple's nominated guests. Mistakes here can land in hospital — verify.

Background music transitions

Nice to have

Dinner music gradually shifts toward upbeat as dessert approaches. DJ pre-plans this.

Phase 5

Cake + first dance (20 minutes)

MC calls cake cutting

Important

Couple to cake table. Cut a small slice. Photographer captures the moment. Cake then taken backstage to be cut + served as dessert or supper.

First dance

Important

Couple takes the floor. MC announces. Photographer signals when guests can join — usually 60-90 seconds in.

Parent dances (optional)

Nice to have

Bride + parent, then groom + parent. Or skip — many couples now do.

Dance floor opens

Important

DJ shifts to upbeat opener. MC invites everyone to the floor.

Phase 6

Dancing + party (90-180 minutes)

DJ manages energy curve

Important

Build for 30 minutes, sustain for 60+, leave 15 minutes of slow songs at the end.

Bouquet toss (optional, often skipped)

Nice to have

If doing, MC announces. 5 minutes. Most couples now skip — it can feel dated.

Late-night snack served

Nice to have

90 minutes into dancing. Pizza, sliders, or something hand-held. Optional but loved.

Couple checks in with each other

Important

Dance together for one slow song. Steal 5 quiet minutes. The day is almost done.

Phase 7

Send-off + close-down

Last call announced by MC

Essential

15 minutes before bar close. Final drinks, last songs requested.

Send-off moment

Important

Sparkler tunnel, confetti, or just a hug-line at the door. MC organises guests if doing a tunnel.

Vendor payments distributed

Essential

Coordinator or family member hands envelopes to each vendor before they leave.

Personal items packed

Essential

Decor, gifts, cards, leftover cake, signage. Most venues require everything out by midnight.

Couple departs

Nice to have

Hotel, Airbnb, or home. Order pizza. The day is officially done.

Frequently asked questions.

Usually the venue coordinator or your hired day-of coordinator owns the document. The MC works from a simplified version. Photographer + DJ get their own cue sheets pulled from it. The couple should NOT be running the sheet — that defeats the point.

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