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Wedding Checklist

6 Month Wedding Planning Checklist

Six months is tight but very doable. You will need to make decisions faster, be flexible on dates, and book vendors who have availability. The upside is less time to overthink, quicker momentum, and a shorter engagement. Here is everything you need to do, compressed into 26 weeks.

Updated for 2026

30 tasks

6 months before (immediately)

Set budget and guest list on the same day

Essential

These two decisions drive every other choice. Do them first.

Book venue (be flexible on dates)

Essential

Check availability for 3-4 dates. Midweek and off-season gives you more options.

Book celebrant

Essential

Confirm availability and begin planning the ceremony.

Book photographer and videographer

Essential

Start with your top pick and work down the list. Availability is limited.

Start dress or suit shopping immediately

Essential

Rush fees apply to custom orders. Off-the-rack or sample sales are your best bet.

5 months before

Book caterer and finalise menu direction

Essential

Lock in the style (plated, buffet, cocktail) and request a tasting.

Book florist

Important

Share your style direction and venue photos. Seasonal flowers keep costs down.

Book DJ or band

Important

Confirm equipment requirements with the venue.

Book hair and makeup artist

Important

Schedule a trial for 6 weeks before the wedding.

Send save the dates (digital)

Essential

Keep it fast. Digital save-the-dates go out same week as you book the venue.

4 months before

Order or buy attire

Essential

No time for custom. Buy off-the-rack and schedule alterations immediately.

Order invitations or set up digital RSVPs

Essential

Digital invitations save 2-3 weeks of printing and postage time.

Plan ceremony details

Important

Readings, vows, music, and processional order.

Order wedding cake

Important

Simple designs have shorter lead times.

Book transport

Nice to have

For bridal party and between venues if applicable.

3 months before

Send invitations

Essential

Set RSVP deadline for 4 weeks before the wedding.

First dress or suit fitting

Essential

Allow 2-3 more fittings before the wedding.

Apply for marriage licence

Essential

Check local processing times. Some require 30 days notice.

Plan reception details

Important

Table layout, running order, and any entertainment extras.

Book wedding night accommodation

Nice to have

And honeymoon if you are going away.

1-2 months before

Chase RSVPs and finalise numbers

Essential

Call or text non-responders. You need firm numbers for the caterer.

Finalise seating plan

Essential

Work with your final guest list and dietary requirements.

Confirm every vendor

Essential

Send the day-of timeline, arrival times, and contact details.

Hair and makeup trial

Important

Bring your accessories and take photos in different lighting.

Final dress fitting

Essential

With shoes, undergarments, and accessories.

Write and practise speeches

Important

All speakers should run through their speech out loud at least twice.

1 week before

Final numbers to caterer

Essential

Absolute last call for changes.

Prepare vendor payments and tip envelopes

Important

Assign someone to distribute on the day.

Delegate day-of responsibilities

Essential

Gift table, guest book, vendor liaison, timeline keeper.

Pack and prepare

Important

Emergency kit, overnight bag, honeymoon luggage.

Frequently asked questions

Can you plan a wedding in 6 months?

Absolutely. Many couples do it successfully. The key is making decisions quickly, being flexible on dates and vendors, and focusing on what matters most to you.

What should I compromise on with a 6-month timeline?

Flexibility on the exact date, the specific photographer or venue you wanted, and custom attire (buy off-the-rack instead). The wedding itself will not feel rushed.

Is a 6-month wedding more expensive?

Not necessarily. You may actually save money by having less time to add extras. Some vendors offer last-minute availability discounts too.

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